power of thoughts

हमारी सकारात्मक सोच, सकारात्मक संवाद और सकारात्मक कार्यों का असर हमें सफलता की ओर अग्रसर करते हैं।


Be Positive Think Positive

वहीं निराशा तथा नकारात्मक संवाद व्यक्ति को अवसाद में ले जाते हैं क्योंकि विचारों में बहुत शक्ति होती है। हम क्या सोचते हैं, इस बात का हमारे जीवन पर बहुत गहरा असर होता है। इसीलिए अक्सर निराशा के क्षणों में मनोवैज्ञानिक भी सकारात्मक संवाद एवं सकारात्मक कहानियों को पढने की सलाह देते हैं। हमारे सकारात्मक विचार ही मन में उपजे निराशा के अंधकार को दूर करके आशाओं के द्वार खोलते हैं।

स्वामी विवेकानंद जी कहते हैं, “हम वो हैं जो हमारी सोच ने हमें बनाया है, इसलिए इस बात का ध्यान रखिये कि आप क्या सोचते हैं। शब्द गौंण हैं, विचार दूर तक यात्रा करते हैं।“

भारत के भूतपूर्व राष्ट्रपति ए.पी.जे. अब्दुल कलाम, गरीब मछुआरे के बेटे थे। बचपन में अखबार बेचा करते थे। आर्थिक कठनाईंयों के बावजूद वे पढाई करते रहे। सकारात्मक विचारों के कारण ही उन्होने भारत की प्रौद्योगिकी के क्षेत्र में अनेक सफलताएं हासिल कीं। अपने आशावदी विचारों से वे आज भारत में ही नही बल्कि पूरे विश्व में वंदनीय हैं। उन्हे मिसाइल मैन के नाम से जाना जाता है। हमारे देश में ही नही अपितु पूरे विश्व में ऐसे अनेक लोग हैं जिन्होने विपरीत परिस्थिति में भी अपनी सकारत्मक वैचारिक शक्ति से इतिहास रचा है।

20वीं सदी के महानतम राजनेताऔं में से एक ब्रिटेन के प्रधानमंत्री चर्चिल बचपन में हकलाते थे, जिसके कारण उनके सहपाठी उन्हे बहुत चिढाया करते थे। अपनी हकलाहट के बावजूद चर्चिल ने बचपन में ही सकारत्मक विचारों को अपनाया और मन में प्रण किया कि, मैं एक दिन अच्छा वक्ता बनुंगा। उनके आशावादी विचारों ने विपरीत परिस्थिति में भी उन्हे कामयाबी की ओर अग्रसर किया। द्वितीय विश्व युद्ध के समय ब्रिटेन को एक साहसी अनुभवी और सैन्य पृष्ठभूमि वाले प्रधानमंत्री की जरूरत थी। विस्टन चर्चिल को उस समय इस पद के लिये योग्य माना गया। राजनीति के अलावा उनका साहित्य में भी योगदान रहा। इतिहास, राजनीति और सैन्य अभियानों पर लिखी उनकी किताबों की वजह से उन्हे 1953 में साहित्य का नोबेल पुरस्कार प्राप्त हुआ। ये सब उपलब्धिया उनके सकारत्मक विचारों का ही परिणाम है।

कई बार हम सबने क्रिकेटरों को कहते सुना होगा कि एक दो चौका पङ जाने से विपक्ष का मनोबल टूट गया जिससे वे गलत बॉलिंग करने लगे और मैच हार गये। वहीं कुछ खिलाङियों के साथ ये भी देखने को मिलता है कि वे पुरे सकारात्मक विचारों से खेलते हैं परिस्थिती भले ही विपरीत हो तब भी, जिसका परिणाम ये होता है कि वे हारी बाजी भी जीत जाते हैं। सकारात्मक विचार की शक्ति से तो बिस्तर पर पङे रोगी में भी ऊर्जा का संचार होता है और वे पुनः अपना जीवन सामान्य तौर से शुरु कर पाता है। हमें अपने मस्तिष्क को महान विचारों से भर लेना चाहिए तभी हम महान कार्य संपादित कर सकते हैं। जैसे कि हम सोचे, मै ऊर्जा से भरपूर हूँ, आज का दिन अच्छा है, मैं ये कार्य कर सकता हूँ क्योकि विचार शैली विषम या प्रतिकूल परिस्थिति में भी मनोबल को ऊँचा रखती है। सकारात्मक व्यक्ति सदैव दूसरे में भी सकारात्मक ऊर्जा का संचार करता है।

अक्सर देखा जाता है कि, हममें से कई लोग चाहे वो विद्यार्थी हों या नौकरीपेशा या अन्य क्षेत्र से हों काम या पढाई की अधिकता को देखकर कहने लगते हैं कि ये हमसे नहीं होगा या मैं ये नही कर सकता। यही नकारात्मक विचार उन्हे आगे बढने से रोकते हैं। यदि हम ना की जगह ये कहें कि हम कोशिश करते हैं हम ये कर सकते हैं तो परिस्थिति सकारात्मक संदेश का वातावरण निर्मित करती है। जिस तरह हम जब रास्ते में चलते हैं तो पत्थर या काटोँ पर पैर नही रखते उससे बचकर निकल जाते हैं उसी प्रकार हमें अपने नकारत्मक विचारों से भी बचना चाहिए क्योंकि जिस प्रकार एक पेङ से माचिस की लाख से भी ज्यादा तीलियाँ बनती है किन्तु लाख पेङ को जलाने के लिए सिर्फ एक तीली ही काफी होती है। उसी प्रकार एक नकारात्मक विचार हमारे हजारों सपनो को जला सकता है।

हमारे विचार तो, उस रंगीन चश्में की तरह हैं जिसे पहन कर हर चीज उसी रंग में दिखाई देती है। यदि हम सकारात्मक विचारों का चश्मा पहनेंगे तो सब कुछ संभव होता नजर आयेगा। भारत की आजादी, विज्ञान की नित नई खोज सकारात्मक विचारों का ही परिणाम है। आज हमारा देश भारत विकासशील से बढकर विकसित राष्ट्र की श्रेणीं में जा रहा है। ये सब सकारात्मक विचारों से ही संभव हो रहा है। अतः हम अपने सपनो और लक्ष्यों को सकारत्मक विचारों से सिचेंगे तो सफलता की फसल अवश्य लहलहायेगी। बस, केवल हमें सकारात्मक विचारों को अपने जीवन का अभिन्न अंग बनाना होगा।

स्वामी विवेकानंद जी कहते हैं कि, “मन में अच्छे विचार लायें। उसी विचार को अपने जीवन का लक्ष्य बनायें। हमेशा उसी के बारे में सोचे, सपने देखें। यहाँ तक की उसके लिए हर क्षणं जिएं। आप पायेंगे कि सफलता आपके कदम चूम रही है।“

मित्रों, यदि हम ये सोचें कि, हम कुछ भी कर पाने में सक्षम हैं, चाहे वो हमारी सोच हो या जीवन या हमारे सपने सब सच हो सकते हैं। हम इस अंनत ब्रह्माण्ड की तरह अनंत संभावनाओं से परिपूर्ण हैं। तो ऐसे सकारात्मक विचारों को जीवन में अपनाने से हमारे जीवन में सार्थक और सफल परिवर्तन संभव हो सकेगा।
By Anita sharma (philosopher) 

Never judge women or girl

Never judge a woman by her attitude...listen to her story, get to know her heart & experience her fears...Not everything is what it seems...~E.Williams.

👋Hello my dear friends,i m going to post about women and girls feelings.

Never judge a woman if she doesn’t have a relationship status and never underestimate a woman if she is single. She might be single because maybe she doesn’t believe in casual love affairs and out of the blue relationships. Maybe she fears being in a relationship because of a recent breakup. Maybe she was cheated upon and she is too shattered to trust a man again. Maybe she wants a man who would understand her and take relationships seriously OR Maybe she is waiting for her true love and she has the courage, strength, ability, attitude and confidence to wait for what she deserves.

few Current Writers I’m In Love With

I love to read. And I especially love to read good writers, people who are in love with the written word, who can tell great stories, create characters I want to be best friends with, invent new worlds that I can inhabit for a few days.

It’s by reading these writers that I realize what is possible as a writer myself. They bring my imagination alive.

I can curl up with a good book and get lost in it. I finish such a book with regret, and stare at the author’s picture and wonder what kind of a person can create like this.

William Gibson.

I can’t get enough of this guy. His writing is just so cool. Known as the father of cyberpunk, Gibson creates gritty worlds filled with technology that just seem real, and bittersweet stories that I can’t put down. His work is like poetry. It started with Neuromancer and that first trilogy, continued with the excellent Bridge trilogy (starting with Virtual Light and ending in the excellent All 

Jonathan Lethem.

I’m currently working my way through his work. Motherless Brooklyn was just a great, great book — filled with fascinating characters, including a lead character who didn’t fit the bill of hero in any sense, but works perfectly

Ann Patchett.

I can’t say enough good things about her. Bel Canto was one of the most beautiful books I’ve read in years, and I’ve read and loved every one of her other books except one. I wish I could write as well as her. 

Terry Pratchett. 

One of the funniest guys I’ve ever read (Douglas Addams is just above him), Pratchett takes the realm of fantasy and injects a wonderful sense of humor. I’m a particular fan of Captain Vimes and Lip von Moistwick books.

J.K. Rowling.

I’m reading the last Harry Potter book (the Deathly Hallows) with my friends. He writes great a great adventure story. 

The Art of Handling Criticism Gracefully

If you’re going to do anything interesting in the world, criticism is an unavoidable fact.

You’ll be criticized, because you’ll make mistakes, because some will be jealous, because people have opinions about anything interesting, because people want to help you, because someone want to drag down those doing anything different.

I have 800 subscribers and more than 4000 friends on my public facebook id. Whenever i post a matter on my fb status.I received all kinds of criticism. Many of them were from new readers, who were mostly incredibly positive and encouraging, but who sometimes would leave scathing comments on a post.

I can handle crictism.
Here i ll tell u some tricks

How to Handle It Gracefully

Calm yourself down before responding. Always. Responding to a critic in anger is never, ever, ever a good idea. In case I didn’t make that clear: don’t ever ever ever respond in anger.

Ask yourself why the criticism was made. Is the person trying to help, to make things better, to help you avoid making mistakes, to suggest positive improvements? Is the person just in a cranky rude mood, having a bad day? Is the person just mean, or jealous? Is there good reason for the criticism?

Regardless of the motivation, ask yourself if there is validity in the criticism. Sometimes there really is, but instead of letting that get you down, let it help you improve. Admit that you’re not perfect at what you do (though you are perfect), and that not everything you do is exactly right, and that you want to improve. I, for one, certainly make mistakes all the time and have a lot I can improve.

Thank the person offering the criticism. Sometimes they’re coming from a place of wanting to help you. That takes courage, and is a very generous thing. Be grateful for that. Even when they’re not trying to be helpful, they’ve taken the time to respond to you — and trust me, getting a response is better than absolute silence. Provoking a reaction means you’ve done something interesting — and for that, you should be thankful. Either way, thanking the critic will help lead to a positive exchange.

Respond rationally and calmly. Instead of being defensive, be honest. Share your reasons, acknowledge the other person’s points if there’s any validity, and come to a rational conclusion rather than jealously guarding your way of doing things.

Or stay silent. If you can’t respond with grace, then just don’t respond. Silence is a much better response than anger or defensiveness or quitting.

Carry on. You’ve responded gracefully, now get back to doing your amazing things.

commitment

What is a commitment?  Some people think it's a type of relationship.  Other people say it is the same as a promise.  Some call the various appointments on their calendar commitments.

Commitment is an agreement or pledge to do something in the future.  As long as it is just words, it's still just a promise.  You can turn your promise into a commitment by setting an intention, making a plan, and following that plan, no matter what obstacles you meet along the way.  A commitment involves action.  It involves integrity (making your actions match your words, thoughts, or beliefs).  It means overcoming obstacles.  It means going forward, even though you may have some doubts.




Commitment is what transforms a promise into reality," wrote someone whose name we shall never know.  "It is the words that speak boldly of your intentions.  And the actions which speak louder than the words. 

Looking For Love?

*** Looking for love ***

                       My friends and many people ask me  for people who are looking for love and meeting for new person.
look my dear friends, i m not a dating expert and love guru but i know the relationship and its important in our life .
In present time ,all students and teens think that only gf-bf relationship exists. But its not true my dear friend  if you are looking someone in life then u have to understand the basic of relationship,basic of humanity.
In present time there are many relationship are breaking.Husband are giving divorce to wife ,people not able to understand to other people ,60-90 % people are unsatisfied of thier partners because they have no knowledge of basic relationship.

Remember my dear friends ,these relationship skills are never taught in our college ,university and schools.
school aur colleges me jo education padhai jaati hai wo real life me kabhi kaam nahi aati hai , although u can just get good marks and a job but jab college se nikalne ke baad life ke second phase me enter karte ho to wanha sirf aur sirf tumhare behaviour ,personal skill ,and relationship management kaam aata hai ...janha aap job karege in sub cheezo ki badi hi importance hoti hai ..


There are so many student who score good marks even they get job also but in real life ,they do not face real life situations and they become fail .
my dear friends ,main ye nahi kah raha hu ki ye engineering ki padhai kaam nahi aayegi .ye jaroor kaam aayegi per iske sath sath apko wo sab ki skill bhi sikhni padegi agar aapko ekk achhi jagah per settle hona hai ....

issi reason se aaj women sexual harassment increase ho rahi hai day by day .
because humko basic relationship ke baare me koi idea nahi hai .in every min ,in every sec . india me kanhi na kahi rape hota hai because of lack of basic relationship.
many big leader say that agar meri gov aayegi to main rape ko khatam kar dunga ..
aree bhaiya kaise khatam hoga jab poison pure body main spread ho gaya hai to hath katne se wo bimari door to nahi hogi na ...
jab tak ekk boy aur ekk girl ekk dusare ko samjhenge nahi tab tak ye harassment chalta rahega ...
hame basic cheez per concentrate karna hoga.
anyways i come my topic .

Let go your idealsour probably have some ideal of who you’re looking for — I know people who have made a “man board” with all of their ideal characteristics, or an “ideal woman” list with a laundry list of how she’ll look and what she’ll be good at. Good luck with that. You’re just making it harder on yourself .

today 95% people are unhappy because wo ekk dusaro ko change karne me lage hue ..ekk common dialogue hai ..yaar wo ajeeb hai .bhagwan ne usko galat banaya hai ...
aree bhai kabhi  GOD galti karta hai kya...
har ekk person apne aap me unique hota hai ..aur tumhare jaiss insan iss earth per kanhi nahi hoga ...yaad rakhna agar tum log bhi apne pitaare me aise girls/boys find kar rahe ho ki mera sapno ka rajkumar itna hansome hoga ,itna smart hoga bla bla bla ....to aise find karte rahna kabhi nahi milne wala hai ..kyoki jo hum wish kar rahe hai wo to hamari apni hi quality hai ..abb tumhare jaisa insan iss earth per kanha milega ...issi liye log aksar yahi kahte hai ki yaar wo muje pasand nahi aayi/aaya  ..

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remember my dear frinds ,god agar ekk cheez bana deta hai to uski jaisi dusari cheez kabhi nahi banata hai ...everything is unique in our life nature , u too :)
issiliye arrange marriage jyada successful hoti hai ..kyoki wanha per hum apne jaisa insan nahi find karte hai ..aur girl and boy yahi sochte hai ki yes hume usko adjust karna padega ..aur adust karte karte  arrange marriage me pyar ho jata hai . :) :) dheere dheere rafte rafte ;)
main ye nahi kah raha hu ki love marriage successful nahi hhoti hai ..hoti hai dost ..lekin hame ekk dusare anokhepan ko jhelna hota hai... aur kisi ko jhelna hi pyar hota ... ekk best friend apne friend ko jhel raha hota hai ,ekk husband apne wife ko jhel raha hota hai ..thats love ...jhelna i love hai ...iss world me aise kai log milenge jo kisi ko jhelte nahi hai aur unhe akela chhor ke chale jaate hai .

my dear friends .... if u r looking for someone in life then accept that person's quality because the person is unique and god creations .
fir dekhne koi bhi akela nahi rahega iss world me ...
enjoy variety of person ....
ye kahna band karo ki wo bahut ajeev hai yaar ,,mujse nahi banti hai ..kyoki god ne usee aisa hi banaya hai ...variety ko enjoy karna sikho mere dost ..always be happy :) :)
your vikas bharti  .thanks for reading this article .
if u have any problems ,then u can contact me on given email/fb link or in college campus .:) :)
take care :)

                                                                                   


                

Break your limiting belief

hii dosto ,how r u ? i hope ,all is well :) 

friends, kya apne focus kiya hai ki jab koi strong belief ekk baar break hoti hai to wo break hoti chali jaati hai.
lets see some example.
pahle ye assumption tha ki human being k liye 10 sec k andar 100m run karna imossible hai ,fir ekk din jim hinse ne 9.95 sec me ye distance cover kar lete hai 
fir aaj tak na jane kitne atheletes ye record ko repeat kar chuke hai example. ussain bolt 

why its happened.??

bcz record banana kai years se people ke andar baithi kisi strong belief ko tod deti hai ...pahle jis kaam ko hamara mind impossible manta tha wo abb possible manae lagta hai ..thats is breaking of strong belief .
aisa karne se humara mind uss kaam ke liye taiyaar ho jata hai aur wo kaam  asani se ho jata hai .
thats breaking of strong belief.

abb apni study ko hi le lete hai kuch log kahte hai ki yanha ki padhai se GATE,IES,CAT,PSU,IAS.nahi crack hoga .abb aisa kahne se ekk weak belief hamare mind me aa jaati hai aur hum stress, and low confidence feel karne lagte hai ...yahi sabhi ke sath hota hai .apne belief ko jitni ho sake utna strong  banao ...jitni jyada strong belief utni jyada instant action hoga mere dost.

Your belief.

ho sakta hai ki aap bhi anjane me kuch aisi belief bana rakhi hogi jo limiting belief hogi ..
main ye nahi kar sakta hu ,,main wo nahi kar sakta hu ..bla bla bla ...
if u r capured as limiting belief.. be careful my dear friend..
iss competion bhari duniya me aap jitni ho sake apne belief ko strong aur limiting belief ko high rakh lo warna ..future me apki watt lagne wali hai ..
main iss baat ko emphasize karte hue ye post kiya hu ,,,
get rid of it .
wo kariye jo aap karna chahte ...people apko bahut bate batayenge ki yaar its too hard ..leave it ..koi other goal soch ...aise logo ki baate ko ekk kaan se suno aur dusare kaan se nikaal do..aise negative people se door hi rahi to hi achha rahega ...
always remember my dear friends ,koi bhi kaam agar karna hota hai to sabse pahle uspe hamare belief aur hamara mind work karta hai ..fir humko lagta hai ki ye kaam kar lunga to wo directly action me change ho jaata hai ...aur wo kaam jo karna hota hai hum kar lete hai ..thats it .
break all limiting belief...
BEST OF LUCK.
 your vikas bharti
bye .take care